Exchange of power, level one: conditional consent.
This is an occasional game convention (single session, or series of sessions over the weekend), the SM equivalent of a night out. Partners act in a style of mutual respect to perform some kind of limited physical action or role play together to meet their needs. None of them are expected to do anything that does not please them or satisfy their fantasies.
Exchange of power, level two: limited extended consent.
In this case, the agreement on periodic games is extended. Partners act in a style of mutual respect to perform some kind of limited physical action or role play together to meet their needs throughout the relationship. None of them are expected to do anything that does not please them or satisfy their fantasies. Since this is already a relationship, partners get to know each other better and try to give maximum pleasure.
Exchange of power, level three: temporary submission.
These relationships are characterized by a genuine interest in the well-being of the partner and sincere tenderness.
Level of trust: Each partner makes a genuine effort to understand the needs and motivations of the other partner. The Submissive may have no real emotional dependency on the Dominant except during the scene.
The exchange of power, level four: the agreement between the Dominant and the submissive.
Such relationships are characterized by deep emotional involvement and mutual devotion. Both the Dom and the Sub desire to satisfy the emotional and sexual needs of the partner. Often, Dom and sub fall in love with each other. They enter into a kind of symbiosis. Sometimes, their day life retains a bit of the night. In the mouth of the subwoofer, "Master" becomes not an honorary name, but a deeply felt concept. "Master" or "slave" becomes an appropriate and polite display of affection. The bond that Dominant and Submissive feel can be described as a sense of belonging and responsibility to each other. At this level, partners may feel the desire to have some sort of symbol of their bond, such as a piercing, tattoo, branding, or a collar worn by the Dominant on the submissive.
Exchange of power, level five: absolute possession.
This relationship is characterized by the submissive's total devotion and obedience to his Master. The master is the most important person in the life of a sub - now a slave. The desire of a slave to obey and respect the Master, to sacrifice her interests for him constantly and forever.
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