Depersonalization is complete dissolution in one's role, emotional and physical. When a person achieves depersonalization, it is believed that he has experienced BDSM. Most often, depersonalization is carried out in the form of a game transformation of a person into an inanimate object (stool, ashtray, etc.), or into an animal. Both the Lower and the Upper refer to such a practice in their own way, and the reasons for everyone to love it are different.
The Top is given the opportunity to feel all the power and his position of supremacy. This cannot be fully felt with other BDSM practices, but there is more in real life. Whatever role is chosen for the Bottom, it gives the Top an awareness of concentrated power, even if only for a short time. And it is this power that intoxicates, inspires and gives a feeling of permissiveness.
The Bottom likes depersonalization for its ability to escape from the usual life, looking for its own course, and from the usual social role. Depersonalization pulls the Bottom one out of the usual life, society, and positions it as a different creature, devoid of any privileges and advantages.
Relationships in BDSM sessions are difficult to build on depersonalization alone, because then you would have to forget about all the feelings that partners have for each other. The dominant gets the full role of the master, making decisions and exercising full control over the submissive.
Sometimes a session is not enough for dominants without depersonalization of the submissive, or rather, there are periods when the Top needs to throw out his desire for power as much as possible, then depersonalization comes to the rescue.
Bottoms, on the other hand, often like to feel put in a position in which they are almost or completely deprived of the opportunity to use their natural instincts. For example, a quite attractive woman, tired of being constantly told about her beauty and considering this her main quality, can calmly find herself in depersonalization, and will be quite happy, losing all her sexuality and femininity in an instant, and gaining other virtues, coming to the fore. Or a strong man may want to feel weaker and more defenseless. For such people, sometimes depersonalization is a liberation and rest from everything - from responsibility and from their qualities. The Bottom simply transfers its rights and needs to the Top, which receives full control over it.
For example, the submissive's role is a footstool. Now nothing is required of him, he is used only for convenience, do not give any additional rules, tasks or restrictions, you just need to fulfill your role - to be a footstool.
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